Positive First anal pleasure exploration: A Guide

This article is about the essentials to reach positive anal experiences together. It's important to note that everyone's experience is unique, and communication, consent, and comfort are paramount in any sexual activity.

Anal play refers to any sexual activity involving the anus and rectum for pleasure, exploration, or intimacy. This can include a variety of activities such as anal stimulation, penetration, massage, or simply the exploration of erogenous zones around the anus.

It's essential to recognize that anal play can be enjoyable and fulfilling for individuals of all genders and sexual orientations, but it's also crucial to approach it with care and attention to safety. Proper communication, relaxation, lubrication, and the use of appropriate protection, such as condoms or gloves, are vital aspects of engaging in anal play responsibly.

Moreover, it's important to dispel any myths or misconceptions surrounding anal play, such as associating it exclusively with certain sexual orientations or activities. Everyone's preferences and boundaries are unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to anal play. It's about understanding and respecting individual desires, boundaries, and comfort levels while prioritizing pleasure, safety, and mutual consent.


A guide for a positive anal first experience:

  1. Communication and Consent:

    • Open communication is crucial. Make sure all parties involved are on the same page about trying anal play.

    • Discuss boundaries, desires, and concerns beforehand to ensure everyone feels comfortable and consents willingly.

  2. Relaxation and Comfort:

    • Create a comfortable and relaxed environment. This might involve dim lighting, soothing music, or any other elements that help reduce tension.

    • Engage in activities that help relax the body, such as a sensual massage or other forms of foreplay.

  3. Education and Preparation:

    • Learn about the anatomy of the anus and the importance of using plenty of water-based or silicone-based lubricant to reduce friction and discomfort. Recommended water-based gel: Anal Play Gel by LELO and Bijoux indiscrets collaboration

    • Start with smaller anal toys or fingers to gradually introduce the idea of anal play. Gradual progression helps the muscles relax and minimizes discomfort. For example, the SORAYA Beads by LELO is a great device to explore your gradual progression. Its design and variation of harmonizing vibrations increase the sensation and provide a wonderful experience for Anal Play first-timers.

  4. Lubrication:

    • Use a high-quality lubricant specifically designed for anal play. Apply generously to ensure smooth and comfortable penetration.

    • Reapply lubricant as needed throughout the experience.

  5. Positioning:

    • Choose a comfortable and accessible position. Experiment with different positions to find what works best for everyone involved.

    • Consider starting with positions that allow the receiver to have control over the depth and pace of penetration.

  6. Patience and Communication During Play:

    • Take things slow and pay attention to the comfort level of all participants. If someone is experiencing discomfort, pause and communicate openly about how to proceed.

    • Encourage verbal and non-verbal communication throughout the experience. This helps create a safe space for everyone involved.

  7. Aftercare:

    • After the experience, engage in aftercare activities to ensure emotional well-being. This might involve cuddling, verbal affirmations, or any other activities that promote a sense of closeness and comfort.

  8. Reflection and Feedback:

    • Afterward, take time to reflect on the experience individually and discuss it with your partner(s). Share what went well, what could be improved, and any desires or boundaries for future experiences.

Remember, the key to a positive anal first experience is communication, consent, and a focus on the comfort and well-being of all involved parties. It's essential to approach anal play with an open mind, patience, and a commitment to creating a positive and consensual environment.


Check our Anal Play Page to see our most recommended devices

Devices that were mentioned in the article: SORAYA Beads by LELO and Anal Play Gel by LELO & Bijoux Indiscrets. If you want to read our full LELO’s SORAYA Beads product review click here


End of 2022 SALE for Pleasure Toys

Our Selection December deals

Like in any other niche and in like any other year, the Black Friday Sale is happening right now. Here are the most attractive discounts from our favorite brands and the products we selected for you as a great opportunity to explore different fantasies of yours.

Lovense New Releases and Black Friday Deals

Lovense Gravity

$129 Black Friday Special - App-controlled, automatic thrusting & vibrating dildo. 2 powerful motors (one vibrates and one thrusts) 140 strokes a minute. For penetrative solo or partnered play (G-Spot & Anal) with a suction cup. Waterproof. Up for 4 hours of use.

Gravity at Lovense (online store)

First of all, it is a great opportunity to announce the release of Lovense’s new device Gravity - App-controlled, automatic thrusting & vibrating dildo with a strong suction cup with 140 strokes a minute. Like any other great device by Lovense, it can be controlled via the app which means, it syncs with music and is optimal for long-distance or short-range control and more incredible features. Gravity is a powerful two motors pleasure toy (one for vibrations and one for thrusting) that works for up to 4 hours. For g-spot penetration or P-Spot. And of course waterproof and easy to clean Gravity is now available for $129 (Till Nov 27th - regular price $259).

Lovense Gemini

$69 Black Friday Special - app-controlled wearable adjustable vibrating nipple clamps. 2 powerful motors pinching and vibrating discreetly. Perfect for light BDSM or public play. Waterproof. Up to 2 hours of use.

Gemini at Lovense (online store)

Their second new release is Gemini app-controlled wearable adjustable vibrating nipple clamps. which are available now for $69 (till Nov 27th - regular price is $159). 2 powerful motors, one in each clamp, stimulate your nipple with strong vibrations, regardless of gender. Can be worn beneath the bra/shirt so perfect for public discreet fun. Gemini is a great introduction to light BDSM or adventurous foreplay. any type of nipple or any part of your body can be pinched with this design. Waterproof and easy to clean. Gemini is controlled via the Lovense app which means it syncs with music and can be controlled, each motor individually or simultaneously from long-distance or from short-range. Can be synced with other Lovense toys. Gemini rechargeable battery runs up to 2 hours of use.

Other Lovense Toys we recommend this Black Friday sale are Flexer ($99 instead of $199) app-controlled hands-free vibrator for fingering sensation - another recent release from the Lovense magical team. Flexer is a blended orgasm device controlled via their app (like all their sex toys) sending clitoral stimulation (vibration) and ‘come hither’ (fingering alike movement) and g-spot vibrations. Very powerful, wearable, and super light. Perfect for public discreet play (inside the panties).

Lovense App-controlled, automatic, thrusting & adjustable Sex Machine is on a special sale ($699 instead of $1399) with a robust motor that offers a variable speed of up to 300 strokes per minute. The double-sided thrusting design allows two people to use the machine at once. 2 silicone dildos and 2 Vac-U-Lock adapters are included. Compatible with all Vac-U-Lock dildos/accessories. The Lovense Sex Machine is for heavy-duty play. Designed for solo play, close-range, and long-distance control.

Calor is an app-controlled Multifunctional, super-soft, compact heating, and a vibrating pocket sleeve. Calor is designed for a squeezable grip and functions as a versatile toy. Great first pleasure toy for penis owners. It has depth sensors and a heating function. Calor is now available for $99 (instead of $199).

Hyphy Remote control dual-ended vibrator for the clitoris, G-Spot & nipples with 3 silicone attachments that stimulate in unique ways using different sensations.The high-frequency side designed to stimulate your clit & nipples with up to 12,000 vibrations per minute. The other side is designed for penetrative g-spot stimulation. Switching to the other side, it will make you orgasm on the G-Spot with intense vibrations. Hyphy is now available for $99 (instead of $199). The versatile hyphy’s round attachment helps you have amazing sex adventures by yourself, or with a partner.

And Hush 2 Series App Remote Control Vibrating Butt Plug. Hush 2 is a remarkable butt plug series that is available in 4 sizes: XS-L. Hush 2 has a powerful motor and strong vibrations. Hush 2 is designed for comfortable short or long-term wear. Hush 2 is now available for $99 (instead of $199.

Luxurious LELO Black Friday and Cyber Monday Deals

LELO is a luxurious pleasure devices company with a catalog full of great design and technology. Their pleasure toys are unique, powerful, and extremely beautiful, made of extra-soft body-safe silicone and waterproof materials and design. Their high-end products have an incredibly luxurious design and packaging. Long-lasting battery life, powerful motors, and innovative technologies. The luxury experience starts with their website all the way to the unboxing and the, of course, the We have reviewed many of their products and they never fail to enrich our exploration solo or with a partner. They are definitely one of our favorite Feminist Toys Approved Brands. We have gone through their full catalog and selected a few sex toys from their Black Friday + Cyber Monday deals throughout the entire month of November.

Their Black Friday Sale is up to 60% off
Use the code: HAPPYBF

Start: November 18, 2022
End: November 30, 2022
Activation: an additional 15% OFF (this includes discounted products)

In their 50% off you can find Hex condoms ($17.45) ultra-thin and strong condoms with a hexagonal structure that is textured on the inside for a better grip.
Personal Moisturizer ($14.95) is a smooth and soft-to-the-skin water-based moisturizer. Non-greasy and non-staining. Perfect to use on LELO’s pleasure devices.

Lyla 2 ($95) luxury remote-controlled bullet vibrator. Designed to fit all bodies. With SenseMotion technology that turns the vibrating exploration into a hands-free experience. Perfect for beginners and all levels of public play enthusiasts. Up to 2 hours of use.

Tiani 24Karat Gold ($159) is a luxury couple’s toy featuring a ring of 24k gold laser-engraved (with a serial number). It has a dual motor design for extra power. Tiani 24k Gold enhances the sensations for both partners. Designed to be worn internally by a vulva owner during intercourse. The remote control has an exclusive LELO technology - SenseMotion that creates a more intense and in-the-moment sensation. Flexible to fit all body types and positions. Up to 2 hours of use.

Bruno ($89) is a medium-sized prostate massager. Fits all levels of experience. It has 2 powerful motors for simultaneous perineum and prostate stimulation. Bruno is designed to impact the vibrations equally on the prostate. Up to 2 hours of use.

Billy 2 ($89) is a strong and powerful prostate vibrator. Designed to ergonomically fit the body - easy to insert (with a water-based lube) and perfectly shaped to stimulate the prostate. With 8 vibrating settings Up to 4 hours of use.

Liv 2 ($83). is a medium-sized vibrator. Great for beginners and intermediate sex toys enthusiasts. Designed for internal and external stimulation; slightly curved for clitoral and g-spot precision. Liv 2 is compact and powerful with 8 vibrating settings. Up to 4 hours of use.

In their 30% off you can purchase Enigma Cruise ($153), dual stimulation sonic vibrator with cruise control. A pleasure device for blended orgasm for the g-spot and clitoris. The Cruise control technology enhances the intensity once it is pressed closer to the skin. Providing constant pulsation with extra power. Honestly, this device is one of our favorite sex toys. It is mind-blowing. Flexible, powerful, and up to 2 hours of use.

Sila Cruise ($132), sonic clitoral masager with Cruise Control. Perfect for beginners who wish to experience clitoral stimulation. SenSonic waves will tease you to experience a gentle and slow climax. It has a large mouth to fit all sizes of the clitoris. And the Cruise Control feature will enhance the intensity once you press it hard against the body. Up to 2 hours of use.

F1sV2 ($160), App-controlled penis stimulator. Unique dual-motor design, turbocharged for more intense vibrations. The F1sV2 fits all sizes and shapes. It covers the entire erogenous area with deep penetrating vibrations. The SenSonic technology sends sonic waves and the Cruise Control technology makes sure to keep the intensity on high. The sleeve is ultra-soft and flexible. The pleasure programs are specifically designed to contain seven patterns each with 10 state-of-the-art sensors. You can use the performance feedback on your speed, stamina, and skill from the app to your advantage. Up to 2 hours of use.

Smart Wand 2 ($139), is the ultimate rechargeable luxurious all-over body massager. From muscle tension and stress release to mind-blowing orgasms. 10 different massage patterns with ultra-soft body-safe silicone and a sleek beautiful design. Up to 4 hours of use.

Ida Wava ($132), App-controlled dual stimulation massager with fingering effect. It rotates and vibrates. 2 powerful motors stimulate both the clitoris and the g-spot blended together from a gentle start to intense - amazing climaxes - Great for beginners and advanced alike. Flexible design to fit all bodies and shapes. The WaveMotion technology gives the effect of a rotating finger against the g-spot. 10 settings and up to 2 hours of use.

Hugo ($153), a luxurious remote-controlled prostate massager for solo or partnered play. Medium-sized for all levels of experience. The SenseMotion technology allows you to increase the intensity with a flick of a wrist. Hugo has 2 powerful vibrating motors for simultaneous perineum and prostate stimulation. Hugo is a global best-seller. And recommended by many. Up to 2 hours of use.

Ina Wave 2 ($139), WaveMotion rabbit vibrator for clitoral and g-spot stimulation simultaneously. If you would like to explore blended orgasms in a rabbit style, this is the rabbit vibrator for you. The WaveMotion imitates a fingering effect, stimulating your g-spot while the other end vibrates on your clitoris. the 2 motors are perfectly synchronized and create a subtle play, with 12 intensity levels. Curved-designed and beautifully colored. Up to 2 hours of use.

Loki Wave ($153) powerful vibrating prostate massager which moves back and forth come-hither style. It’s a rabbit-designed vibrator for the prostate and perineum simultaneously, for a blended orgasm. Loki Wave is ergonomically fit in a sleek design with ultra-soft silicone. with 10 settings of intensities and global best-seller. Up to 2 hours of use.

and more.

In their 25% off you can find Sona 2 Cruise ($112), Sonic clitoral massager, and in our humble opinion the best clitoral stimulator out there. It provides stronger, deeper, and more intense mind-blowing orgasms. It sends sonic waves all around the clitoris and deep into the inner part of it, underneath the skin. it has 12 settings of intensity, and the Cruise Control technology charges it with extra power once you press it against your skin. I have had it for almost 4 years now and it’s still as powerful as it was and still one of my favorite clitoral pleasure devices. If you’re into clitoral stimulation and want to experience a new way to climax, I would definitely recommend Sona 2 Cruise for you. And it also lasts up to 2 hours of use.

Gigi 2 ($112), a curved and astonishing g-spot vibrator that has a flattened tip that targets accurately the g-spot. Can be used for internal use (g-spot or external use (flattened tip on clitoris). Mid-sized to fit all types of bodies and shapes. it has 8 settings of intensity. A perfect g-spot toy for beginners and advanced enthusiastic alike. Up to 4 hours of use.

Soraya Wave ($194), A luxurious rabbit vibrator with a fingering-alike effect. Ultra-powerful vibrations, from subtle to intense for clitoral stimulation and a pulsating arm for deeply g-spot sensations. The WaveMotion technology in the Soraya Wave designed sculpted tip surges in like a finger massage your g-spot. Extra soft silicone and a unique luxurious design all together with these unique sensitive technologies give you a whole new experience in climaxing. It is a global best-seller. 8 settings of intensity. Up to 2 hours of use.

Tor 2 ($104), a flexible cock ring for couples to play. Tor 2 is considered to be the most powerful couple pleasure ring in this category of sex toys. The smooth silicone design fits all sizes. The strong vibrators are designed for the pleasure of both partners. 6 settings of intensity. To be worn around the penis base or a dildo. Up to 1.5 hours of use.

Dot ($143), clitoral pinpoint vibrator, for external use. Its soft and bendable tip and revolutionary elliptical motion prevent the numbing feeling traditional massagers sometimes give you. A versatile pleasure device, perfect for exhilarating solo or unintrusive coupled play. 8 settings of intensity and an elliptical movement. Infinite Loop technology orbits around the erogenous zone (clitoris) and with an elliptical pattern cover every nerve ending. Can be used on the clitoris, nipples, perineum, and other external erogenous zones, as you please. for a minimum of 2 hours of use.

Ora 3 ($134), an intelligent oral sex stimulator mimicking the human tongue movements with a little bit more creativity and power. Plus, vibrations. Ora 3 is a global seller and its PreMotion technology uses firm and precise nub rotating motion for faster real-feeling oral stimulation. 12 settings of intensity. Up to 1 hour of use.

Tiani Harmony ($119). App-controlled couples toy. 2 motors to stimulate both partners to be used during penetrative sex. one arm to stimulate the g-spot (and the penetrative penis) and another to stimulate the clit. 10 settings of intensity and can be controlled via their state-of-the-art app. For blended orgasm the vulva owner harmonized with their partner’s orgasm. Up to 2 hours of use.

Luxurious Le Wand Sale of the Year

Le-Wand is an upscale sophisticated high-end pleasure toy brand. Their catalog of products is magnificently prevailing beautiful clean design and powerful engineering. This end-of-the-year sale offers up to 40% off.

in their 40% off you can find their crystal wand and Yoni Eggs collection. A beautifully crafted crystal pleasure tool collection designed for stimulation. Le Wand's Crystal Collection is made entirely of natural stones that shed a whole new light on the exploration of your sensuality and sexual pleasure. Available in Rose Quartz or Black Obsidian. The Crystal Slim Wand ($84) and the Crystal Yoni Eggs ($66) are perfectly made for beginners who wish to explore pleasure with natural stone. Crystal G Wand ($150) and Crystal Wand ($102) are much heavier and wider and designed for more experienced explorers.

In their 30% off you can find their Chrome vibrators collection and the stainless steel dildo collection. Stainless steel toys are praised for their hardness, weight and hygiene. Plus, they can be used with all types of lubricant. For temperature play try cooling them down or warming them up with water. Easy to clean and are dish-washer friendly.





In their 20% off you can find their wand vibrator collection (rechargeable and plug ins) and more.



B-Vibe is a luxury brand that specialized in anal pleasure devices.
https://www.bvibe.com/black-friday-cyber-monday-2022
In their 40% off you can find their butt plugs and tantalizing textures.
In their 30% off you can find their weighted plugs and other vibrating plugs.

In their 20% off you can find their rimming vibrators, dilator set, and more.


Bijoux Indiscrets is a luxury body jewelry, body harnesses, cosmetics and other accessories for enhanced and kinky fashionable sexual experience. They offer 30% OFF Storewide

  • Black Friday Code: BF2022

  • Valid: November 25th - 27th, 2022

  • And

  • Cyber Monday Code: CM2022

  • Valid: November 28th, 2022

    Check out their Maze Collection, Jewelry, Soft Sex and more.

LOVE. Not War. is an eco-friendly sex toys brand. 40% off the following vibrators:

  • Grey AMORE

  • Orange GRÁ

  • Grey KAMA

*automatically applied at checkout*


Free Head of your choice when you purchase any of the following:

  • Orange KAMA

  • Orange LIEBE

  • Orange MEILE

  • Maya Grey

*automatically applied at checkout*


20% off all heads

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Spin the wheel to win:

  • 20% discount code voucher to be used on any purchase in December

  • Free head vouchers to be used with any purchase over $50 until the end of December

  • Free Amore vibrators up for grabs


All offers will be running from now until midnight on Monday 28th November.


OhNut offers 20% off everything
It's like Toyota-thon, except we don't sell cars. 20% off all Ohnut rings, accessories, and bundles! Wowee!

SHOP 20% OFF


We-Vibe

We're offering 20% off ALL of our bestsellers, while many sale items are reduced by a whopping 50%!

If your audience is looking for high-quality, silicone pleasure products that'll deliver orgasmic highs and intimate moments, why not grab a bargain at the same time?

These sale prices are our biggest ever reductions, so Black Friday week is the best time to shop. This is indeed the perfect opportunity to stock up on gifts for loved ones, stocking fillers, or even a little treat for yourself amid the holiday rush.



Dates, regional promotions and exclusions

United States and Canada 
Start: 23.11.2022
End: 02.12.2022

Europe
Start: 21.11.2022
End: 04.12.2022
Exclusions: promotion not valid on Womanizer OG, Classic 2 Marylin Monroe. 

UK
Start: already live on the shop
End: 04.12.2022
Exclusions: promotion not valid on Womanizer OG.

MysteryVibe offers 30%
ust in time for Black Friday week! Promote up to 30% off in MysteryVibe’s sitewide Black Friday sale until the 30th of November.


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30% off Poco – Bendable, targeted G-spot vibrator that fits in your palm... you can rely on Poco to get sexy, anytime, anywhere.


30% off Crescendo 2 – Infinitely flexible and bendable, Crescendo 2 is designed to stimulate all 6 of your erogenous zones so that you can relax and climax.

25% off Tenuto 2 – Get hard, stay hard and give your partner the ride of their life; Tenuto 2 has something for everyone.


Only available on pre-order:

30% off Tenuto Mini – Compact, flexible and wearable, maximize your erection, whenever, wherever.

30% off Legato – Stay aroused and stress-free with the world’s first labia vibrator with 360° stimulation externally.

Please note that these products are estimated to start shipping in January 2023.

With a sitewide sale until the 30th of November, promote up to 30% off MysteryVibe's award-winning vibrators using the links below:


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JIMMYJANE offers additional 30% off Site-wide
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Fun Factory


Inclusive Air Pulse Clit Stimulator to fit all clitoris sizes

On June 21, 2021. Smile Makers introduced The Poet – a clitorally inclusive air pulse stimulator.

Smile Makers worked with gynecologists to create three different mouths to fit different clitoris sizes. It is a pretty innovative approach that personalizes the use of pleasure devices considering the variety of vulvas and clitorises shapes and sizes. You select the clitoral stimulator mouth size that fits your anatomy the best.

The Poet is the first clit suction vibrator created by Smile Makers. It is designed in a comfortable-to-grip rosebud shape with Touch Sensors on the sides to control the intensity and explore the pulsation patterns. The preferred setting can be locked. Great for solo play or for couples play. Its Safe-Body velvety smooth silicone is vegan and Cruelty-Free. The Poet is quiet, waterproof, and rechargeable. Its measurements are 5.6cm X 5.8cm X 9cm that makes it travel-friendly. Sold for $129 in Smile Makers online store.
If you never tried clit suction vibrator before, the Poet would be a great choice to start with.

How to use the Poet:

The Air-Pulsation technology was optimized to create deep and resonant pulses.
Apply lube over your clitoris glans. Test the different mouths to see which one feels the best for you. Start with the low intensity and increase it as you explore your preferred pulse intensity and pattern. Apply the Poet on the vulva allowing the adjustable mouth to surround and touch the labia - creating a seal.
Enjoy the Air-Pulsation orgasms!

Smile Makers are a Feminist Toys Approved Brand. Their Sex-Positive values and inclusivity manufactured with high-quality Body-Safe materials that create a wonderful collection of pleasure toys for beginners. The Poet is their first clit suction vibrator and we are really excited to try it out. We will cover its full product review soon. You can check all Smile Makers collection here.

Other Recommended Clit Stimulators:

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Sustainability & Sex Toys - Womanizer Premium Eco

Investopedia defines sustainability as meeting the needs of the present without compromising the ability of future generations to meet their needs. The concept of sustainability is based upon three aspects: economic, environmental, and social—a.k.a profits, planet, and people. More and more companies are making increasing public commitments to sustainability through actions like reducing waste, investing in renewable energy, and supporting organizations that work toward a more sustainable future. Including Sex Toys brands.

Womanizer Premium Eco

Womanizer recently launched its Eco-friendly Pleasure Air clitoral stimulator. It is the same well-known bestseller Womanizer Premium just made from sustainable, renewable materials; made from innovative biodegradable Biolene - a unique bio-based material. The biodegradable Biolene is an eco-friendly alternative to ABS plastic. And is being fully recyclable. Creating no waste.

Naturally, it has the same 12 intensity levels, it is USB rechargeable, and it is splashproof. Premium eco can be fully disassembled into individual parts. Featuring a replaceable, rechargeable battery, ensures your toy will perform for as long as you want it to.


Womanizer's Smart Silence

The Smart Silence Technology ensures Premium Eco won't turn on until it senses your skin. It will automatically switch off again when you move it away. This feature makes your experience smooth and quiet.


Premium Eco by Womanizer is now available for $189 on their online store

We adore the eco-friendly approach and celebrate new sustainable technologies and materials. Green or Eco-Friendly sex toys are a great reminder that pleasure creates a great impact, not just physically and mentally, but also environmentally, as well. We applaud Womanizer for reducing their waste consumption and for creating a positive impact on the environment with their new Premium Eco launch.
Womanizer is one of our Feminist Toys Approved brands and their values are in tune with creating a positive change in the world.

Have a great one!

Sex Toys of 2020

It is time to get right to our favorite part of each end of the year, reviewing this year's best new products in the SexTech industry. In this article, we will review the latest pleasure products that were launched in 2020. (a.k.a #staysafe #stayhome time). So, here are our picks: 

New Oral Stimulators

Cunnilingus Simulators are designed to mimic oral sex to stimulate the female genitals. 

In 2020, Womanizer launched LIBERTY BY LILY ALLEN. LIBERTY was co-designed with Lily Allen, the sensational singer, and pop star. Liberty is a contact-free Pleasure Air massager. This special edition of LIBERTY is Womanizer's brightest and boldest way to celebrate self-love. 

In the same category (Oral Sex Simulators) you can also find LELO's Sila. Sila is a contact-free sonic clitoral massager that was created for gradual pleasure. A sensual, slow build-up of orgasm. Sila's wide mouth engages all around the erogenous area spreading its vibrations equally across the clitoris. It is a pleasure toy that redefines self-love. (read our full Sila by LELO product review here). 

Ora 3 by LELO is also in the same category: Oral Sex Simulator. Ora 3's PreMotion™ Technology uses more firm and precise nub rotating motion, for faster real-feeling oral stimulation. The pleasure nub rotates and vibrates, like a tongue. It is intuitive as an experienced tongue. Ora 3's improvements from previous versions include 25% faster movements and a wider range of vibration intensities.

Can't decide between these two? (Ora 3 or Sila by LELO)  If you are into oral sex, ORA 3 is the choice for you. If clitoral play is your go-to, SILA is a terrific toy for that. 

 

Best New Male Masturbators

Fellatio Simulators are designed to mimic oral sex to stimulate the male penis.

LELO released this year the F1s. It has an intense dual motor, Cruise Control, and SenSonic technology that will massage you using conventional vibrations and sonic waves. A chic design element includes a window in the casting, so you and your partner can see. The free SDK can be utilized for your sensations and tracking your progress. An exclusive LELO app will become available to you when purchasing. It is compatible with iOS and Android. Connected by Bluetooth, the app allows you greater and closer control over your pleasure. 

JIMMYJANE introduced us to Astra, which is designed with three powerful independent motors to surround the shaft and tip of the penis. Great for full shaft stimulation. You can choose between seven vibrational modes and three intuitive intensity levels. The design makes it complete with an expertly ribbed interior and a super soft silicone body.

Hedy by Svakom is a male masturbator ultra-soft sleeve that gives a realistic feeling. It fits all sizes, elasticity. It comes in a small package with three different inner structures - real, oral, and soft feel. Made from body-safe TPE material 

The Alex Neo by Svakom is a unique interactive thrusting masturbator.  Controlled remotely via APP, which can be used by your partner from anywhere in the world. The webcam interactive function feature makes Alex Neo perfect for cam performers. Plus, a real-time interactive function will allow you to sync with your favorite 2D interactive videos. The Alex Neo has a realistic touch with a specially designed inner texture. The ultra-soft interior sleeve is flexible to fit penises in all different sizes. 

 

New Rabbit Vibrators (clitoral & g-spot vibrators) 

Rabbit Vibrators are designed as a dual-action sex toy, in the shape of a phallic shaft for vaginal stimulation with a clitoral stimulator attached to the shaft. 

LELO released the Soraya Wave g-spot and clitoral vibrator. SORAYA WAVE™ is a luxurious rabbit vibrator featuring ultra-powerful vibrations for clitoral stimulation, a pulsating tip for g-spot sensations, and patented WaveMotion™ technology that rises and falls and leaves a tidal-wave climax repeatedly. The Soraya Wave's sculpted tip is inspired by a finger caress that surges in a come-hither motion, reaching your g-spot. The fully flexible external arm fits all body types. The Soraya Wave is made of ultra-smooth premium body-safe silicone that is extra soft to the touch. 

We-Vibe launched Nova 2 which is the new and improved Nova Rabbit Vibrator. The internal g-spot stimulator is adjustable and flexes to fit your unique body. With the free We-Connect™ app, you can play and share control of Nova 2 from anywhere, create custom vibes, and play together with other app-controlled We-Vibe products. Nova 2 is waterproof and made of body-safe silicone. It runs up to 120 minutes. 

Lioness 2. In 2018, the Lioness Generation 1 vibrator promised to improve users' orgasms through the collection of detailed data. In 2020, Lioness has unveiled The Lioness Generation 2, a new vibrator that implements more than 30,000 climactic data points to deliver AI-driven guidance on your own experience. Besides relying on big data to make suggestions, Generation 2 also tracks individual sessions and offers tips tailored to each user's behavior. The Lioness measures body heat and pelvic-floor motions to track arousal, orgasm, and everything in between. The Lioness app displays a graph of pelvic-floor patterns and offers relevant information for future sessions, based on user-submitted data and physiological responses. Will be available soon to purchase.

 

Best New Wand Vibrators 

Wand Vibrators are designed often as a rounded vibrating ball attached to a handle for external use.

We-Vibe Wand is a body massager with two custom attachments for different sensations - one smooth and stroking and the other one is fluttery and focused. It is cordless, ergonomic designed, made with soft-touch body-safe silicone, and adjustable. Easy to hold and curve for the perfect angle with a flexible head that moves with you. The Smart Silence™ technology turns the vibrations on when it senses the wand is close to your skin and it turns it off when you want to stop. The wand is made with silky smooth silicone Joystick-inspired controls that let you find the precise sensation and intensity you want with one touch. Waterproof and eco-friendly, Wand is rechargeable with up to 120 minutes of play on a single charge. With the free We-Connect™ app you can play and share control of Wand from anywhere and play together with other We-Vibe™ products.

LELO's luxurious Smart Wand™ 2 is featuring an updated design. This powerful massager offers ten different massage patterns that help soothe sore muscles and relieve stress, and it has a steadier handle and even longer-lasting charge. Made of Body-safe silicone and is smooth as silk. 

The Emma Neo by Svakom is a powerful interactive warming Wand Vibrator (from the Connexion Series). The detachable bunny ears are a great attachment that can be used to stimulate your ears, neck, nipples, and all other sensitive areas.  A real-time interactive function will allow you to sync with your favorite 2D interactive videos. Emma Neo has a webcam interactive feature which makes it very popular among cam performers. Emma Neo is equipped with a high-frequency vibrating motor and a single charge gives 4 hours of uninterrupted pleasure. Built-in heating core to warm up the vibrating wand up to 38℃. The synchronized pleasure mode creates a precise rhythm and carefully pre-selected intensities in just a touch.  Emma Neo is built with the most sophisticated technology all packed in a waterproof material.

Domi 2 by Lovense has a major performance improvement with almost 3 times the longer battery life. The improved design ensures a more secure grip and a better user experience. The dual rotating head technology enables to maintain a consistently high level of power without the need for cords or increased size. The Bluetooth antenna is updated as well as use a new generation Bluetooth chip that significantly improves connectivity. Makes this wand vibrator one of the most app-controlled interactive vibrators. (Read our full Domi 2 Product Review here).

 

New Anal Toys

Anal vibrators are designed for internal use to stimulate the anus.

BILLY™ 2 by LELO is a luxurious anal vibrator that is made of extra-soft silicone that ergonomically fits the body. Easy to insert and ideally shaped to massage the male prostate. 

The Vick Neo by Svakom is an interactive prostate and perineum vibrator from the Connection Series. It can be controlled remotely via APP, from anywhere. The real-time interactive function will allow you to sync with your favorite 2D interactive videos. The webcam interactive feature makes Vick Neo one of the most favorite prostate app-controlled anal vibrators for cam performers. Vick Neo was designed to adapt to your unique anatomy with a perfect angle that will target both the prostate and the perineum (or the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously). Vick Neo is built with the most sophisticated technology all packed in a waterproof material. Built-in with two powerful motors and a total of 35 different ways to climax. 

 

New Sex Toys for Couples Play

Couples vibrators are designed to use by a heterosexual couple as part of intercourse to stimulate the clitoris. 

The We-Vibe Chorus couples vibrator is the most intuitive couples vibrator by We-Vibe ever. Worn during sex, Chorus adjusts to fit your body for just-right stimulation on both the clitoris and the G-spot. The squeeze remote is designed with an intuitive response in mind - the tighter you squeeze it the stronger the vibrations get. Chorus features unique touch-sensitive receptors. As you play, your movements control the vibrations. With the free We-Connect™ app, you can play and share control of Chorus from anywhere, create custom vibes, and play together with other We-Vibe™ products. Vibe to music with Beat mode or use Touch mode for real-time control at your fingertips. Chorus is powered with AnkorLink™ technology. AnkorLink creates the most stable connection between your We-Vibe and the We-Connect™ app. The Squeeze Remote is the anchor between Chorus and the We-Connect app — you’ll need to keep it close by whenever you’re using We-Connect. Convenient and eco-friendly, Chorus is rechargeable with up to 90 minutes of play on a single charge. Chorus is 100% waterproof, making it easy to enjoy anywhere and simple to clean. The remote control is only splashproof, not fully waterproof.

JIMMYJANE launched Kore - a vibrating cock ring. It is made from super-soft silicone and designed for harder and longer erections simultaneously providing clitoral and penis shaft stimulation. Kore has one powerful motor at the top of the ring and remote control to maximize the play. Kore run-time is an hour per charge. 

 

New Sexual Health Toys & Accessories

LELO Luna Beads™ Plus train you for more intense orgasm in a variety of six interchangeable weighted beads in this luxurious set. Its gentle kinetic vibrations respond to your body’s movements, helping you gradually achieve stronger, longer orgasms for enhanced pleasure.

 

New Kinky Sets

Fascination seven-piece set by JIMMYJANE is a premium vegan leather luxury set. it includes a vegan leather mask, whip, paddle, adjustable collar with detachable leash, adjustable wrist cuffs, adjustable ankle cuffs, and a travel-ready bag. 

 

New Interactive Sex Toys

SVAKOM, in 2020, had announced the launch of the Connexion Series by introducing 5 new products (Phoenix Neo, Emma Neo, Ella Neo, Vick Neo, and Alex Neo) with “Feel Connect 3.0” App available on Google Play and Apple’s App Store. It enables the user to connect with their partner anywhere across the world as long as they have a Smartphone with networking features like WiFi or 4G/5G. The series covers vibrating bullets, a powerful vibrator, and a male masturbator.

In December 2020, Lovense announced the launch of Ferri. A tiny magnetic app-controlled wearable vibrator. The secure magnetic cap ensures the toy stays put during use and stimulates the clitoris while you walk, sit, dance, or lie down. Designed for public play for any location. Ferri is also curved in a way that it can be used with any type of underwear. 

Lovense also earlier this year launched Mission. A Depth-Controlled G-Spot Vibrator with 8 hours of continuous use. Mission is an app-controlled limited edition vibrator that syncs with other of Lovense's interactive toys and the toys will react to each other's movements. 

 

New Clit Vibrators

Clit Vibrators are designed for external use on female genitalia, specifically on the clitoris glans, the visible nub from the clitoris.

The Ballerina by Smile Makers was released at the beginning of 2020. The Ballerina is a vulva vibrator. The shape of this smoothly textured was designed to organically cup the vulva so it caresses the labia, the clitoris for a wholesome stimulation. 

Svakom's Siren is a double tongue g-spot and clitoris vibrator. It Runs 3 hours On a 2 hours charge. Completely Waterproof & Eco-Friendly Material. There is a double-tongued design on one side of Siren. With the strong built-in motor, it offers you 3 intense stimulations. It is specially designed for clitoral stimulation, but can also be used on other sensitive areas on your body.

 

If we could summarize 2020 that would be our picks. Let us know if we missed any new toys you loved experiencing this hectic year.

We wish everyone an orgasmic 2021 and let us all stay healthy, relaxed, and pleased!

Sex-Positivity in Our Eyes...

Sex-Positivity in our eyes is an honest and safe discussion about sexuality and/or a-sexuality, for the matter. It is about focusing on inclusivity. It can be a discussion about feeling comfortable in your skin, in your sexual attraction or orientation, in your romantic orientation or attraction and especially it is a discussion about self-love and mutual pleasure. It can involve physical diversity, emotional diversity, mental diversity, orgasm diversity and any other form of individuality. After all, human sexuality is so vast and can be manifested in so many different forms.
We can mention all cliches out there, stating the beauty of different skin tones, body shapes, physical mobility differences, gestures and manners of tenderness, love, affection, care, and other emotions. They are all true. We let our community share their Pleasure Toys Stories and we see over and over again how intimacy is usually the main key in lovers’ sexual communication and it is incredible. We would mention the importance of gaining self-confidence and learning your self-pleasure, too. Solo Play is something genuine you can also share with your intimate partner, learning each other in the most intimate way.
Some people talk about consent. But we like to talk about mutual will and enthusiasm. If all adults involved are totally into it, it is mutual pleasure. And nothing beats mutuality. 
You can define yourself as monogamous, non-monogamous, poly, solo, relationship anarchist and as long as you’re honest and transparent about who you are, the safe haven within a healthy relationship will embrace you. There are no rules between lovers; only those they dictate between themselves, mutually. You can have a vanilla Hollywood-style relationship and you can have the kinkiest love ever - it is yours to savor on. BDSM, kinks, vibrators, plugs, whips, bondage accessories, costumes or ice cubes, it is all good, as long as it is mutual. And we can’t say it enough. Mutually, love, honesty, and open-mindedness are sex-positivity.

How to Turn a Breakup into Self-Indulgence

[Featured Pleasure Toys; LELO]

At the age of 39, you get to a stage in your life when you already know right from the start which relationship is going to work and which isn’t, for most. As a grown person, awoke adult, you know yourself in and out, you are aware of your flaws and your virtues and you fully embrace both. You have learned how to make your life the best you can for yourself and you work hard on making them even better. Even the struggling in difficult times, you have learned how to overcome them resiliently. You appreciate the purest connections, those who make intimate communication so precious. You indulge in the happy moments of appreciating your partner and the love you share while mutually being appreciated by them. Life for you is pretty damn good. You nod to agree, I would, too. But sometimes, once in a while, you fall into a rabbit hole… After all, we are all humans. 

And here I am, a highly-functioning adult, single (ethical non-monogamous) and happy. I own and manage businesses, with a really impressive disruptive record behind and a great love for what I do. I am a problem solver by definition and title. I am also a romantic type of person… Ok let’s be honest, the extremely romantic type - the poet. I adore passion and great love stories and the excitement of meeting a person who still gives me butterflies even years after we first met. Unfortunately, these butterflies sometimes turn into shivers, and not in a good way. Well, sometimes, even creative, confident grown-ups who are living a free life, find themselves in a somewhat toxic relationship. The best advice in times like that is to get the hell out of them. So I have tried,  for the last few months, on and off - again and again, until I had enough and just ended it. But, as efficient as I am, I made a plan - "how to stay away from toxicity" plan. Coincidently enough LELO recently had launched a new series of pleasure toys and sent us two of them to review: the SORAYA 2 and SONA 2 Cruise. A spoiler; two of the best toys I had ever tried.
Well, I am famous for taking limes and turning them into mojitos so I took my problem - getting over a bad breakup and decided to set myself a goal and turn that blues into a bliss. I created myself a "detox" plan and almost fully blocked my evenings' calendar to test the new toys while I recover and heal my broken heart and lift my spirit. I must admit, the plan was successful. While my beloved other partners understood my isolation mode and my need to get my emotional system back on track. 

According to the plan, I decided to take the time, try the toys and learn their abilities, to master their functionalities and understand their added values. I decided, learning new toys’ optimal experience is a great project to concentrate on while trying to keep myself busy. Needless to say, I learned to admire the SONA 2 Cruise sonic sounds, during my second orgasm, it felt as it orchestrates for me. To be completely honest, it took me a few minutes to get the hang out of it. But once I did, I submitted myself to its uniqueness technology and fell in love with its neat sonar waves technique - Absolutely amazing! 
A broken heart after the third tryout turned into an optimistic psyche, I gained my mojo back and felt intact again. I tried in the bath, too. I had used the word 'generous' to describe it the night after when I went to see a partner of mine. And then, I tried it with him, it was so intense I experienced out-of-body experience. We spent the night together, him, me the SONA 2 Cruise and SORAYA 2. Well, the week I gave myself to detox from a bad relationship, turned into evenings of self-celebration and orgasmic wonders. The SORAYA 2 is incredible, it can get as intense as I like it, the patterns it has just got me to a sensational state of mind. I love my solo-play to be long and intense. I love the feeling of almost flying when my body exquisitely savors in its pleasure. I adore the moment my body loses control within a wave of multi-orgasms, both SORAYA 2 and SONA 2 Cruise got me there. 

So, if you are looking to gain your confidence back, or just learning to love your orgasmic self again, you should try LELO's new and enticing new toys, from my experience, SORAYA 2 and SONA 2 Cruise are the best bad relationship healers of them all. 

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SORAYA 2

Product review coming soon.
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SONA 2 Cruise

Product review coming soon.
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Autumn Sex Toys 2019

The cycle of seasons caused by Earth's tilt on its axis and the planet's orbit around the sun. I always make changes during Autumn. Dedicating more alone-time, making new decisions, clearing old clutter out, executing plans and coming to terms with my long due procrastinated tasks and then, after a cup of an americano coffee, I even bravely finish them. I love autumn. During this getting-shorter-and-shortest days, I usually update my dating profile and getting all excited thinking about all the possibilities of meeting new interesting people, and maybe a chance of meeting a new intriguing romantic love. Nevertheless, I check new business opportunities, projects, and ideas. Planning my upcoming winter schedule and of course, I binge weekends of TV Series thoughtfully like any other person. I adore the weather, the fall, the colors change in my surroundings. I get myself new items to wear, and, most importantly, I refresh my pleasure toy's chest with new stuff.

When having the chance, my non-monogamous partner and I going out to restaurants, to theaters, to concerts, to movies and sometimes just strolling down the streets and having great laughs and meaningful conversations. The time we spend together is both precious and kinky.

What I usually do when I am planning my new season toy purchases is thinking about fantasies I wish to explore and different situations I might be in for the needs of my next toy(s).

Since only a few months ago I publicly launched this site, I'd explored some of the products reviewed in here myself and I thought I should contribute my share for this season recommendations, all mentioned below are approved by Feminist.Toys stuff and being featured on our featured media, including our Instagram page and in our telegram channel.

This season I decided to introduce our wonderful and growing online community to a few basic great pleasure devices. By that, I hope everyone gets their thrill and new pleasure experiences.

So here are Satisfyer 3 Pro by Satisfyer (Clitorial Oral Stimulator), HelixSyn by Aneros (Anal Plug), Tiani 3 by Lelo (Remote controlled couples’ massager) , Max 2 Masturbator by Lovense, Pocket Vibe Rose Gold by Crave (Luxury Mini Vibrator) and Lioness Vibrator (the world’s most advanced rabbit Vibrator).

Have great orgasms! And please, share your Toy Experiences with us. Use this form to tell your pleasure story.

So cheers, for thrilling autumn!

A New User Best Experience published - Sonar Orgasm

We collect personal reviews from our followers and publish them from time to time. This time we let one woman discuss her favorite toy: Sona Cruise (by Lelo) and this is what she had to tell us about: Read here

Take a walk on the wild side

I started Feminist.Toys because I was looking for some online sources that will screen all the offensive content and will give me the best products I can have to treat myself and my beloved ones. I couldn't find any content site that will take all the clutter away. I did find a few online stores and brands and related sites and as the entrepreneur, I am I had decided to try and create this beautiful freedom-oriented content site that recommends other passionate, sensual individuals like myself about the most desirable accessories and toys a person can add to their sexual arsenal.  

I admire pleasure. I hope you share my pleasure, as well.


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