Collaborative User Toy Experiences

We believe in sharing knowledge and experiences, especially when it comes to such a taboo as sexual pleasure and sex toys. The diversity of human sexuality is incredible and fascinating. Many sex toys can be a gate-opener to imaginative romantic or sexual scenarios. It is not just a game for one player anymore, even though it could be. Creating a sensual moment together enriches the intimacy and the physical and verbal communication between lovers. It boosts confidence and gives a breeze of joy and playfulness. We review pleasure products and toys on our site, and even though we try to describe the personal experience, as well, we are experiencing it within our limits. That’s why we curate here the 1st Collaborative User Toys Experiences Knowledge-base.

Our community of readers, social media followers, and others send us their own pleasure toy experiences. We publish those who eloquently portray a mutual pleasure attitude and respectful language. We focus on sex-positive, body-positive, and equality-based user content. We love to read and present different voices of different stories and experiences by all kinds of people. If you wish to send us your own toy experience please fill out this online form.

Disclaimer: 
*You will read here different pleasure toy experiences from all kinds of people. They are from all types of beautiful lifestyle choices (BDSM, Vanilla, Kinks, etc.), from different relationship practices (monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, and more), with various sexual and romantic orientations. Our mission statement is to express sensual freedom, self-expression, and mutual pleasures. We are SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) enthusiastic. And we strongly advocate mutuality, diversity, inclusivity, and sex-positivity. If it is not your cup of tea, we encourage you to go someplace else. 

**The sex toys that are mentioned in the User Toy Experiences below are affiliated with their brand and for most cases, will be part of our reviewed content, as well. Our business model is based on recommendations, commissions from sales, and all brands we work with are FEMINIST TOYS APPROVED BRANDS. Feel free to click the links to head to their online stores. We promote only companies that go hand in hand with our FEMINIST TOYS APPROVED TOYS guidelines and from an equality-based point of view.  

User Toy Experiences

All-Time Favorite Pleasure Toys

We took a look deep inside our reviews’ statistics. We found out which pleasure toys are more popular than others. We had reviewed them and approved them as Feminist Toys. We divided them into common sections (see below). For any kind of play you desire; it is your pleasure of choice. Powerful vibrating wands, oral simulators, mini vibrators, pleasure (cock) rings, remote-controlled vibrators, and more. Let us know if we miss your favorite.

 Long-distance/remote-controlled Sex Toys

Exploring Toys for Couples

The evolution of sex toys and technology has come a long way in making long-distance relationships a little bit easier. There are so many ways today you can interact, tease, and even stimulate each other, across the hall or the land. Not suggesting sex toys are ever going to take the place of your lover touching you but it sure will make the lonely nights somewhat easier and fun.

Social Distancing Sex Toys

The pandemic has created a strange era in the modern world where partners are separated and not seeing each other for long periods and it takes creativity and great communication to overcome this longing and keep maintaining intimacy and emotionally connected. App-controlled and webcam interactive vibrating anything can almost feel like you're close enough to touch. The future of app and Bluetooth-enabled long-distance sex technology is here and the brands that lead the way are Lovense, We-Vibe, and OhMiBod. These Feminist Toys Approved Brands (find their catalogs here) are helping to keep things fresh and to ease the sexual frustration in this social distancing time. Their cutting-edge technology, style, and eco-friendly materials create high-end beautifully designed products. Lovense even enables a virtual group sex option via their app.

Buy yourself an interactive sex toy and let your partner sign in via the app from afar, or control their sex toy as they control yours.

Spice Up Your Sex Life: Exploring Toys designed for couples’ pleasure

Sex toys designed for couples can be a fun way to explore new pleasures together and deepen intimacy.

Benefits of Couple's Toys:

• Shared Exploration: Toys open the door to discovering new forms of pleasure together, leading to greater sexual satisfaction and emotional connection.

• Communication & Play: They create an opportunity for open communication about desires and boundaries while adding a playful element to your sex life.

• Breaking Routines: Toys can help break out of routine patterns, keeping things exciting and fresh.

Choosing the Perfect Toy:

Finding the right toy is all about comfort and preference. Here's what to consider:

• Your Pleasure: What kind of stimulation do you enjoy – internal, external, or both?

• Material & Size: Choose a material that feels comfortable and a size that's suitable for both partners.

• Ease of Use: Start with user-friendly options, especially if you're new to toys.

Open Communication is Key:

Honest communication with your partner is crucial. Talk about your desires and boundaries openly, and explore options together to find toys that work for both of you.

Safety First:

• Quality & Materials: Choose toys from reputable brands and avoid materials that could cause allergic reactions.

• Cleanliness: Always clean toys before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner.

• Sharing & Hygiene: Avoid sharing toys without proper cleaning, and consider using a condom on the toy to prevent the spread of bacteria.

Talking to Your Partner:

Introducing toys can be exciting! Initiate the conversation in a comfortable, non-judgmental setting. Discuss your mutual interest in exploring new experiences, and suggest toys as a fun option. Be open to your partner's thoughts and concerns, and explore different options together.

By following these tips, you can embark on a journey of shared pleasure and discover a whole new level of intimacy with your partner.

All Toys for Long-Distance Relationships that appear on this page are Feminist Toys Approved. We are reviewing them constantly and will update all reviews when available.

Recommended couples’ Sex Toys:

Luxury Toys

Luxury sex toys are a whole new category of pleasure toys. Obviously, more expensive than most sex toys, nevertheless they embrace hedonism altogether with the intriguing kink of luxury. As a couple, or alone, you might find pleasure, like us, in temperature play. All luxury sex toys here are made from stainless steel or gold or rose gold, all hi-end design unto the smallest detail. You can find couple’s vibrator, dildo, massagers, mini vibrators, remote-controlled sex toy, anal plugs, and vaginal beads to enrich your love to exquisite metals and its feeling on or in your body.

Indulging Luxury Toys:

Kinky & BDSM Toys

Each to their own sexual kink and/or fetish. Behind the vibrators, dildos, plugs, and others, some of us express a desire to add another layer to our sexuality; whips, masks, floggers, ties, and more. Some of the products we review here are luxurious BDSM pleasure instruments, which are a kink of their own. For all levels of kinkiness, beginners to advance Safe Space players. Here you can find recommendations on the kinkiest pleasure toys out there (made by Feminist Toys Approved Brands). All made for a Sane, Safe, and Consensual sexual exploration.

*For those who are cruelty-free customers, check out the Fascination 7 piece set by JIMMYJANE, which includes: vegan leather mask, wrists & ankles cuffs, whip, paddle, collar, and bag. Or the Stockroom’s Vondage - Vegan Bondage Line.

Best Recommended BDSM Toys:

 Sex Toys for Beginners

Sex toys are great fun. And if it is your first time choosing a sex toy for yourself or for your partner(s), or better yet, one you can use together, this page is where your journey starts. There are many ways to explore new ways to be intimate, by yourself, or with your lover(s) and sex toys are a great way to do so. If you’re a first-time toy explorer and you’re not sure rather you want clitoral stimulation, G-spot stimulation, anal stimulation, or other, trying different toys is a great way to discover what works for you best. 
The intriguing thing with the right sex toy is learning so much about your body and what you and/or your partner(s) want and like. Sex toys can help a couple explore each other’s bodies and find new erogenous zones. Adding a vibrator to your safe space can help you also communicate better, first in terms of speed, pressure, patterns, position, angle, and all that can be a start to other conversations sliding into other areas of the sexual parts of the relationship. 

The first decision will be between external stimulation and internal. The best advice we can give is to choose something that makes you feel comfortable and that won’t intimidate you. Another piece of advice is to use lube. And the last one, keep the toys clean and safe. 

Sex Toys during the quarantine

We experienced it ourselves here among our community of readers in Feminist Toys and reports also show that sex toy sales were through the roof back when the COVID-19 quarantine first started mid-2020. All that makes a lot of sense since orgasms are one of the best forms of self-care and toys help you exploring orgasms at a whole new level. Following that statement, many people usually try and experience different toys before they find what makes them feel awesome.

Type of Vibrators

The first decision will be between external stimulation and internal. Internal vibrators are meant for penetration; some are designed specifically to stimulate the G-spot. External vibrators focus on the clit and labia but you can use them for nipple stimulation and all-over body massage, too. Some vibrators combine both types and give you both external and internal stimulation simultaneously. Anal vibrators are designed with a flared base, for safety. And last but not least, the penis vibrators (or cock rings). In the end, what most important is what you like and what you are in the mood for. So there are different shapes and sizes, from a mini vibrator to a finger-sized one to long and phallic and have bulbous or round, contoured-shaped tips for optimized stimulation. Below, you can find our picks that we recommend starting with as your first.

All toys that appear on this page are made with the most high-quality materials and are toxic-free. 
All toys that appear on this page are Feminist Toys Approved. We are reviewing them all constantly and will update all reviews when available. We only include products that have been independently selected by us.

Most Recommended Toys for Beginners:

 SexTech Toys

Here you can find recommendations for technology-based sex toys. With which your pleasure can be monitored, tracked, designed, or controlled by an App, all for orgasm optimization. Either it’s a rabbit vibrator that analyzes your orgasms to guide you through your optimal climax. Or a smart vibrator that remembers your unique sensuality, pressure points, and rhythm. Some of them are solutions for a long-distance relationship to bring couples closer together. And many more technology-based products. It is an exciting era of innovation, and the sex toy industry has a great part in it. The SexTech is a new concept that harnesses a cutting-edge type of a new sexuality-related company. Sex toy & sexual wellness brands, hi-end designs, luxury jewel-alike objects, and sensational new inventions to provide pleasurable experiences to all physical conditions, body shapes, sexual preferences, and kinks. All concentrating on a positive perspective about human pleasure and its wonderful diversity. Most SexTech related products, created by women and designed for all genders. This is a whole new niche of young companies that their core values are inclusivity, sex positivity, and equal pleasure. They give an outstanding alternative to an industry that used to be almost solely dominated by men, phallus-focus. Many of these exciting companies appear on our site. We keep establishing connections with more of them regularly. To summarize it, we decided this page is for toys and products that use technology to enrich your pleasure in one way or another, all in favor of your sexual experience and exploration. Some of the products that appear on this page are the famous Connexion Series by Svakom, interactive sex toys controlled by an app. They and Lovense’s app-controlled toys are great for interactive webcam integration. Some of the products we reviewed thoughtfully and some will be reviewed and published here real soon.

All pleasure toys here are Feminist Toys approved and reviewed by our staff.

Human Sexuality backed-up by technology toys:

 Temperature Play Toys

Temperature play is a form of BDSM sensual play where objects and substances are used to stimulate the body's neuroreceptors for heat and cold for sensual effect. (taken from Wiki).

Experience Sensual Sensations

If you wish to experience with erotic sensation play and temperature play in particular, you can try and use warm or cold water, ice cubes, body-safe oil, molten wax, chocolate syrup, whipped cream, melted butter, chilled fresh fruit, and steamed vegetables. (please be advised to use food only externally). Or you can pre-heat in hot water or chill in ice water objects such as ball chains, cutlery, necklaces and many others. For some temperature play scenarios people use source of heat, like a space heater or radiator warming the room temperature to stimulate sensory arousal. Or you can use specially designed for temperature play toys: warming lubricants, warming vibrators, glass plugs and dildo, massage oil candles, ceramic stones, gold, stainless steel and other metal vibrators, plugs, dildos, Ben Wa Balls and so on.

Extra Sensory Stimulation

You can use blindfold to intensify the effects (Sensory deprivation)and or Bondage to amplify the experience. General speaking, is to place the person in a situation where they are exposed directly to heat and cold conditions. And Always play safe! Considering the techniques, the materials and the body parts. 

All Toys for Temperature Play that appear on this page are Feminist Toys Approved. We are reviewing them constantly and will update all reviews when available.

Warm Massage and Wax Play:

A popular form of temperature play is wax play. Hot wax has an element of pleasurable pain. However, for lower burning point (or for beginners) you can use massage candles to enjoy this sensation safely. Massage candles are designed with a low burning point, which means they don’t get as hot as dripping hot wax. You light the candle, leave it to burn for 10-15 minutes, and then pour it over one’s skin. The oil will leave one’s skin sensually soft and is perfect for massage. Wax Play - Choose low-temperature burning candles. The closer you hold the candle to your partner's body the hotter it will burn, so experiment with the distance. Please be aware that Warm-drip candles can be very hot when in use. Avoid sensitive areas- eyes, nose, and mouth.

Pelvic Floor Exercises:

Glass Butt Plugs

Pegging Toys

Gearing up on strap-on and penetrating your partner anally or vaginally has become more and more mainstream in the last few years. Nevertheless, for a good reason. It has to do with the unconventional power dynamic and it also has to do with the exciting new pegging pleasure toys for both of your pleasure. Pegging is a powerful form of role-playing where you take the lead. Pegging toys are for kinkier couples who searching for more experience in their sexual pleasure.
Pegging, traditionally, is when a vagina-owning spouse wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates their penis-having spouse, anally. Clearly, all sexualities and gender identities gear up on strap-ons and pegging became more inclusive in sex-positivity oriented forums. So pegging is gender-freely putting on a strap-on and having anal sex with your partner. From personal experience, I must say it can be very intimate and pleasing.

If you just got into pegging, please remember these simple tips: 

• Lube a lot! Anal penetration and lubricants always go together. Water-based lube, preferably. 

• Start low-key. Start with a small dildo and work your way up. For anal pleasure first explorations, you should try butt plugs or other anal pleasure toys first to ease the experience.

• Start slow and gentle.

• Communicate before, during, and after.  Discuss what is likely going to happen, ask about their enjoyment level during, if they prefer you to go slower, faster, or to stop at once. Talk with them after sharing their experience and yours and see if it’s something you want to do again. 

Anal pleasure is part of human sexuality and pegging could be a wonderful experience.  

Most pegging sex toys are hands-free, as in strap-on and a harness or strapless strap-ons. It is important to pick something that you will feel comfortable with and that would make you feel sexy, too. The ethical thing to do is to let your partner choose the size and the shape of the dildo, especially when it is their first time. When pegging, use a generous amount of lube, and start slowly. Maybe do some anal play before penetrating with a dildo (anal toys or use fingers) to relax the erogenous area and to “smooth things up”. Learn your partner’s reactions to the penetration, its speed and its thrusting. It is a very vulnerable situation that can also be very ecstatic, that both sides can gain an extreme pleasure from. 

Some people can orgasm from anal stimulation alone while many others enjoy it with a bit extra stimulation. Keep an open discussion about the experience, use different gestures, different positions so you can caress them or play with their nipples and such. Pegging a person can feel really powerful and it is very intimate and intensive. Nevertheless, with all that power and enjoyment comes great responsibility to their safety. So play safe!

All pegging toys that appear on this page are Feminist Toys Approved. We are reviewing them all constantly and will update all reviews when available.

Toys for Health & Well-being

Safety, comfort, pain management, and hygiene are crucial to your health and well-being. Besides the positive impact, good sex life practiced solo or with others, can bring to your life, many physical and psychological aspects gain from pleasure and intimacy. 

Pain Management

Pain is usually very difficult to describe as it is to diagnose. For some people, intimate sexual or sensual activities can make them feel uneased, discomforted, or even in pain. Pain or dyspareunia during sex can originate from Fatigue, Adenomyosis, Endometriosis, Fibroids, Interstitial cystitis, Pelvic floor dysfunction, Pelvic inflammation, Pelvic floor muscle spasm (vaginismus), Menopause (genitourinary syndrome of menopause, or GSM), Cancer treatments (including chemotherapy and radiation therapy), Chronic pain (vulvodynia), Post-surgical vaginal swelling, Postpartum pain/sex post-baby, Post-op Gender Reassignment Surgery, etc. It is best to communicate your pain and/or discomfort to your partner. Help them learn how to make the intimacy between you feel as great as it should.

It can be you who suffers from discomfort or pain during sex and it can be your lover(s). Please be advised that these products shouldn’t be taken as a cure and you should always speak with your medical caretaker or a physician when dealing with health-related issues. We are here to recommend to you products which were manufactured to make sex better for you. 

Sexual health and well-being companies

Some companies, as Ohnut, made it their mission to design toys and accessories to manage and even potentially reduce pain with their depth penetration control buffer. Other companies create sex toys for Kegel exercises (Ben Wa Balls) to strengthen your pelvic. Other companies focus on making enhanced organic lubricants for sensitive skin, and so on. We chose products we find relevant to your intimacy of well being and pain management. If some of your toy-of-choice is missing from this list, please let us know. 

All Toys for Health and Well-being that appear on this page are Feminist Toys Approved. We are reviewing them constantly and will update all reviews when available. 

Best Recommended Condoms:

For your and your partner(s) protection. Preventing unwanted pregnancy and STIs. We tested a few of the best high-quality brands of condoms out there and here are our picks.

Toys & more for your well-being:

Travel-sized Toys

Travel-friendly pleasure toys, when size and sound matter. We hand-picked some of our favorite sex toys that we like to travel with, which means waterproof, delightfully powerful and relatively small and quiet. From the best discreet mini-vibrators, remote-controlled vibrators, pleasure (cock) rings and oral simulators. Most are USB charged and all are designed to be carried with you on-the-road. Let us know if we missed your favorite Travel-sized sex toy.

Sound Activated Toys

These pleasure toys are responsive to sound; lover’s voice, music, and your own pleasure moans. They will vibrate as smoothly or as progressively according to the music in the background. Some are which you can take with you clubbing, to a live show, or simply put your lover on speakerphone and let them control the vibrations by the sound of their voice. These special music vibrators are a great tech treat for a playful, loud evening with yourself or with your lover(s).

All sound-activated toys that appear on this page are Feminist Toys Approved. We are reviewing them all constantly and will update all reviews when available.

Most Recommended Music Activated Toys: