Pegging Toys
Gearing up on strap-on and penetrating your partner anally or vaginally has become more and more mainstream in the last few years. Nevertheless, for a good reason. It has to do with the unconventional power dynamic and it also has to do with the exciting new pegging pleasure toys for both of your pleasure. Pegging is a powerful form of role-playing where you take the lead. Pegging toys are for kinkier couples who searching for more experience in their sexual pleasure.
Pegging, traditionally, is when a vagina-owning spouse wears a strap-on dildo and penetrates their penis-having spouse, anally. Clearly, all sexualities and gender identities gear up on strap-ons and pegging became more inclusive in sex-positivity oriented forums. So pegging is gender-freely putting on a strap-on and having anal sex with your partner. From personal experience, I must say it can be very intimate and pleasing.
If you just got into pegging, please remember these simple tips:
Lube a lot! Anal penetration and lubricants always go together. Water-based lube, preferably.
Start low-key. Start with a small dildo and work your way up. For anal pleasure first explorations, you should try butt plugs or other anal pleasure toys first to ease the experience.
Start slow and gentle.
Communicate before, during, and after. Discuss what is likely going to happen, ask about their enjoyment level during, if they prefer you to go slower, faster, or to stop at once. Talk with them after sharing their experience and yours and see if it’s something you want to do again.
Anal pleasure is part of human sexuality and pegging could be a wonderful experience.
Most pegging sex toys are hands-free, as in strap-on and a harness or strapless strap-ons. It is important to pick something that you will feel comfortable with and that would make you feel sexy, too. The ethical thing to do is to let your partner choose the size and the shape of the dildo, especially when it is their first time. When pegging, use a generous amount of lube, and start slowly. Maybe do some anal play before penetrating with a dildo (anal toys or use fingers) to relax the erogenous area and to “smooth things up”. Learn your partner’s reactions to the penetration, its speed and its thrusting. It is a very vulnerable situation that can also be very ecstatic, that both sides can gain an extreme pleasure from.
Some people can orgasm from anal stimulation alone while many others enjoy it with a bit extra stimulation. Keep an open discussion about the experience, use different gestures, different positions so you can caress them or play with their nipples and such. Pegging a person can feel really powerful and it is very intimate and intensive. Nevertheless, with all that power and enjoyment comes great responsibility to their safety. So play safe!
All pegging toys that appear on this page are Feminist Toys Approved. We are reviewing them all constantly and will update all reviews when available.
